love truly

when I love someone I love him as a backage, with his positives and negative, his hopes and fears, his smile and anger, his favours and even his mistakes, because I know I don't love easily and when I love I love truly and can then easily sacrifice any thing just for my beloved's sake..

I'm a human being and I know I make favours and mistakes and have bad and good things inside me

I'm not an angel so I don't expect anyone to be one..

but I know also that inside every one there is a metal as we say in arabic that "people are metals " some people are like gold whatever they were directed to fire they become more pure and remain pure from inside even if they show some anger or some faults that don't fit their nature but u know they are good from inside and will always support you, protect you, and be there for you..

while others are like iron that can easily rust and when you face any hard cicumstance together he shows his rustiness and abandon you, while in good conditions he acts good and do you favours also if he could!!

once I read a friend's status saying "I love you, not for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you"

It reminds me of someone I know, it is such a selfish love that I can't stand.. If you love someone just for this reason _that he makes you feel good about yourself_ you will not bear his bads, his anger or his faults, and will easily sacrifice this sheap love if you face any problems together..

I'm not talking here about actions I'm talking about feelings.. just guard your heart, it is a very sensitive part of you that you will not bear its damage..

Deal with people in a good manner whatever they are and whatever they make and even whatever you feel about them because it is good for you.. It shows what metal you are, and when you love someone, love someone who deserves, someone that is good from the inside and accept his imperfections and the differences, try to affect him and show his better side..   

and the better love is the love for Allah that you will not expect anything from it except that Allah be pleased about you..

and remember "ومن يعمل مثقال ذرة خيرا يره ومن يعمل مثقال ذرة شرا يره"